Just Passing Through



I have lived in nine states, (seven really, two of the states on two different occasions.) Nineteen different homes, as well as three hotels for a period of three to six months while in transition. In the first grade I attended four different schools that year. My family just completed another long distance move, this one the farthest by far at just over two thousand miles. Moving is not a new thing for me, I am used to it, and yet each time we move, I whine and complain.

I don’t like having to “start over”. Having to find a new church home, make new friends (for me and now my children as well). Also depending on where we are moving, I am not always excited about the climate; which is the case in our latest move. I don’t “do” snow! It’s not that I don’t want to meet new people, I love people, I am and have always been a “people” person. I thrive on social interaction. The problem I have is being taken from my comfort zone. It seems as soon as I get accustomed to a new place, make friends, settled into a church; the Lord always moves us. And when I mean move I don’t mean just down the street…I mean thousands of miles.

Ok…so it’s not necessarily God’s fault. Let me clarify. Growing up we moved each time my father got promoted and now my husband is in the military. Yes, I did know when I married my man that moving would be involved…still, I don’t like it!

On the plus side I have been exposed to different cultures. My best friends have always been of other ethnicities. I don’t plan it that way, it just happens, but it is neat to learn about other cultures. I am exposed to different foods. Some really good, like loaded bar-b-q baked potatoes in Alabama. Others I can do without…like Big Red…sorry San Antonio…I just don’t get that one; way, way, way too sweet for me! However I do love the tamales! Or why is Provolone and American cheese (which AM cheese to me does not really count as real cheese) so popular in Pennsylvania? I am a cheese lover, but provolone and American…come on you have to expand your palate!?

At times I have been forced out of my socioeconomic bubble. And while it’s uncomfortable, it is eye-opening, and a good reminder of just how privileged I am. Living in the United States we tend to think of poverty as a third world problem, and yet it is right here all around us. If we had chosen to live in a comfy middle class suburb instead of downtown Montgomery, Alabama or San Antonio, Texas our family would have missed out on all the opportunities we had to minister to the homeless. It’s easy to ignore the problem when you don’t see it on a daily basis, not so much when it’s in your face. Especially when the “problem”, really is NOT a problem…it’s a person with soul, a story and needs.

Just as the song America the Beautiful describes I have seen those amber waves of grains when passing through the plains states, I have crossed the purple mountain majesties, seen the fruited plains, experienced the spacious skies. I have placed my feet in both the Atlantic and Pacific oceans seeing with my own eyes sea to shining sea. And while I have not yet experienced every state in the US…it’s pretty close. (Of course this includes my travels, not just where I have lived.)

Still as I was driving through the Appalachian Mountains most recently…in prayer…as it had begun to snow and I was following behind my husband who was in the vehicle in front of me, travelling at high-speed as I was trying to keep up. The kids were both asleep in the backseat and I could not get good radio reception so I was using the time to talk to God. Or rather I should say whine and complain. I was feeling sorry for myself…I was also sort of mad. You see I don’t do heights very well and just two days earlier we drove over several high bridges; now I was driving through the winding mountain roads, in snow as I just mentioned. (And like I said earlier, I don’t “do snow”) I was not too happy that God was “testing” me, let alone moving me across country. Moving and testing me! Why could I have not been born and raised in one place? In that moment I would have been very happy to be ignorant of my location. I was wishing for a pair of blinders, like horses wear, so that I could not see the long drop down the side of the mountain just feet from where we were traveling. In my time of complaining God spoke to me saying “Look around.”

Hesitantly I did…I say hesitantly because I really did not want to see just how high up I was at the moment. But I did look…and I saw…I saw the beauty of God’s creation. The snow-capped mountains. The valley. Even in its fallen state how magnificent this world is, how amazing it is! Suddenly this peace came over me, and immediately I realized just how silly I was being; letting fear creep in and steal this moment for me. God was not going to let me drive off the side of a mountain (or a bridge.)

As I continued to drive looking at the wonder of God’s creation all around me, I realized just how blessed and privileged I really am. I have several friends and family members who were born and raised in the exact same place they are now raising their families. Yes they travel from time to time, but usually it’s a trip to Disney or a local beach only a few hours away. And while there is nothing wrong with that scenario, if I am being completely honest, I myself would get bored living in the same house/town for my entire life.

And besides the boredom factor, had I not moved so many times, I would have missed out on all the experiences mentioned above, as well as the people. Most of the people I connect with, that relationship only lasts for the duration of my stay in that place. However each time I move to a new place I form a bond, usually with two to three women, that no matter the time or distance when we see each other again we pick up right where we left off. Those forever friends that are so precious and rare. And I have several of them, all over the US! Each one enriches my life in her own unique way. If I had not moved, I never would have had the honor of meeting and getting to know each of those precious ladies.

And the reality is, who cares if moving makes me uncomfortable? Jesus never promised that this life would be comfortable or easy. In fact he says the opposite.

‘Then Jesus told his disciples, “If anyone would come after me, let him deny himself and take up his cross and follow me. For whoever would save his live will lose it, but whoever loses his life for my sake will find it. For what will it profit a man if he gains the whole world and forfeits his soul? Or what shall a man give in return for his soul?” Matthew 16:24-26 ESV

The cross is a symbol of crucifixion, one of the slowest and most painful ways a person can die. And Jesus tells us to pick up our cross and follow him? Does not sound like much fun. In following Jesus, my life has not gone at all how I would have planned or chosen for myself. At times I am stretched beyond what I think I am capable of. I have gone through trials I would rather not have gone through, and yet looking back over my life, seeing where I am today, Jesus knew (and knows) exactly what I need. He knows what is best for me.

So if taking up my cross means I am going to have to step out of my comfort zone and move every couple of years, well that is an easy decision. Much easier when compared to what Jesus experienced on his cross!

Besides with each move comes the opportunity to share the gospel. Especially here in my “new home” where less than 6% of the population call themselves evangelical Christians. (2% in my town). Where non-believers and Muslims are the majority…what an opportunity to be salt and light!

And in that moment while driving through the mountains God reminded me of one more thing. No matter how beautiful or amazing this world is…this is NOT my home; Earth is NOT our home…we are simply just passing through!

Do not love the world or the things in the world. If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him. For all that is in the world-the desires of the flesh and the desires of the eyes and pride in possessions-is not from the Father but is from the world. And the world is passing away along with its desires, but whosoever does the will of God abides forever. 1 John 2:15-17 ESV

I have given then your word and the world has hated them, for they are not of the world any more than I am of the world. John 17:14 NIV

“Do not let your hearts be troubled. You believe in God; believe also in me. My father’s house has many rooms; if that were not so, would I have told you that I am going there to prepare a place for you? And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come back and take you to be with me that you may also be where I am. You know the way to the place where I am going.” John 14:1-4

For here we have no lasting city, but we seek the city that is to come. Through him then let us continually offer up a sacrifice of praise to God, that is, the fruit of lips that acknowledge his name. Do not neglect to do good and to share what you have, for such sacrificed are pleasing to God. Obey your leaders and submit to them, for they are keeping watch over your souls, as those who will have to give an account. Let them do this with joy and not with groaning, for that would be of no advantage to you. Pray for us, for we are sure that we have a clear conscience, desiring to act honorably in all things… Hebrews 13:14-21 ESV

So the fact that I don’t “have a home”, or that I don’t “have roots” like many people do on this earth is not necessarily a bad thing. I am pretty sure I have an advantage of understanding this concept of earth is not our home, much better than someone who is settled and secure in a community in which they were born and raised. I look forward to the day when I do have a home, because that home will never fade, it will be eternal and best of all it will be with Jesus!


Eggs, Bunnies, Chocolate and Jesus???


Eggs, Bunnies, Chocolate and Jesus???

It saddens me each time I walk into a store during this season and see all the isles filled with Easter baskets, eggs, candy, bunnies and other items. What do eggs, bunnies and chocolate have to do with Jesus? NOTHING! All are pagan symbols dedicated to the pagan goddess Ishtar, Eostre, or Astarte; this is where our traditions of Easter come from. While I expect to see the stores filled with these items each year what really saddens me is that the church and true believers accept and practice these traditions right alongside unbelievers.

Many times we dress up, have egg hunts, enjoy a big meal with family and friends, and go to a church service assuming we are doing all this to celebrate the resurrection of Jesus. Easter has nothing to with Jesus…absolutely nothing. When celebrating Easter one is actuality celebrating the goddess of sex! Do some research yourself…Does not seem so cute and innocent when you know the truth does it? And it’s not cute or innocent. The pagans of the past would rise up early to observe the sun rising in the east. They would have a big feast; ham being traditionally the main course. The children would hunt for brightly colored, decorated eggs that supposedly came from divine rabbits; hence the Easter bunny. If you did even deeper, they had some pretty disgusting practices that went along with the other traditions as well. Though we may not be taking as far, participating in some of the other appalling practices that the people of the past did, we are still participating and in truth the description of their holiday festivities does not sound all that different from how we as a culture celebrate Easter today does it?

So what does the Bible say about this?

“See to it that no one takes you captive by philosophy and empty deceit, according to human tradition, according to the elemental spirits of the world, and not according to Christ.” Colossians 2:8 ESV

“When the LORD your God cut off before you the nations whom you go in to dispossess, and you dispossess them and dwell in their land, take care that you be not ensnared to follow them, after they have been destroyed before you, and that you do not inquire about their gods, saying, ‘How did these nations serve their gods? – that I also may do the same.’ You shall not worship the LORD your God in that way, for every abominable thing that the LORD hates they have done for their gods, for they even burn their sons and daughters in the fire to their gods. “Everything that I command you, you shall be careful to do. You shall not add to it or take from it.” Deuteronomy 12:29-32 ESV

“Formerly, when you did not know God, you were enslaved to those that by nature are not gods. But now that you have come to know God, or rather be known by God, how can you turn back again to the weak and worthless elementary principles of the world, whose slaves you want to become once more? You observe days and months and seasons and yeas! I am afraid I may have labored over you in vain.” Galatians 4:8-11 ESV

Clearly God does not want us to conform to this world and celebrate the pagan holidays we once did before we came into relationship with him. We are commanded not to worship false gods. So…some may say? What does it really matter? I mean the eggs are fun, the bunnies are cute…what does it really matter if we celebrate Easter in the name of God? Well once again I refer to the word of God.

“For if we go on sinning deliberately after receiving the knowledge of the truth, there no longer remains a sacrifice for sins,” Hebrews 10:26 ESV

“Everyone who make a practice of sinning also practices lawlessness; sin is lawlessness. You know that he appeared to take away sins, and in him there is no sin. No one who abides in him keeps in sinning; no one who keeps sinning had either seen him or known him. Little children, let no one deceive you. Whoever practices righteousness is righteous, as he is righteous. Whoever makes a practice of sinning is of the devil, for the devil has been sinning from the beginning. The reason the Son of God appeared was to destroy the works of the devil. 1 John 3:4-10

“So whoever knows the right thing to do and fails to do it, for him it is sin.” James 4:17

I for one do not want to be categorized as one who is lawless, or in communion with the devil! So now what, you may be asking? Am I to stop celebrating Easter (and all other pagan holidays)? My answer would be yes! But it’s not that easy, you might be thinking. My family and I will be asked to participate at school, work and church….we will have to turn down invites from friends and family. Break family traditions that have been going on for generations. What will my friends and family think? We could possibly be mocked, made fun of, ridiculed…even ostracized. And my answer would be…yes, yes and possibly yes!

“And those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires.” Galatians 5:22 ESV

It does not matter what we think or how we feel! We are to be obedient to the word of God no matter the cost! No one said choosing to follow Jesus would be easy, even Jesus himself warned us!

“And he said to all, “If anyone would come after me, let him deny himself and take up his cross daily and follow me.” Luke 9:23 ESV

“And you will be hated by all for my name’s sake. But the one who endures to the end will be saved.” Matthew 10:22 ESV

“Indeed, all who desire to live a godly life in Christ Jesus will be persecuted,” 2 Timothy 3:12 ESV

“If the world hates you, know that it has hated me before it hated you. If you were of the world, the world would love you as its own; but because you are not of the world, but I chose you out of the world, therefore the world hates you. Remember the word that I said to you; ‘A servant is not greater than his master.’ It they persecuted me, they will also persecute you. It they kept my word, they will also keep yours. But all these things they will do to you on account of my name, because they do not know him who sent me. It I had not come and spoken to them, they would not have been guilty of sin, but now they have no excuse for their sin… ” John 15:18-25 ESV

“Do not be surprised, brothers, that the world hates you.” 1 John 3:13 ESV

This does not sound at all fun…and it’s not! Following Jesus is not easy and these are just a few verses that explain to us what will happen if we choose to follow him. I believe this is what Matthew was talking about when he wrote “Enter through the narrow gate. For wide is the gate and broad is the road that leads to destruction, and many enter through it. But small is the gate and narrow the road that leads to live, and only a few find it.” Matthew 7:13-14 NIV

I don’t know about you, but I want to enter in through the narrow gate no matter the cost! Does it really matter what others think of us? No…what really matters is our heart and God knows our hearts!

Now what next??? You decide to stop following the worlds ways…do you go around telling everyone to repent? That they are sinners? Maybe…but because of the bad reputation that we Christians already have that is probably not the best way to go about it. First we are all sinners, even those of us who are saved. Plus just think about how you would have responded to someone coming up and accusing you of all this wrongdoing, especially before you knew Christ…most likely it would not turn out well. So what can we do?

Personally as a family we choose not to celebrate these pagan holidays once we discovered the truth for ourselves. When my daughter was in preschool I would keep her home on the days they held their parties or I would at least pick her up before the party or wait and drop her off after it was over. (I know this can be a challenge…but once again following Jesus is not the easy way!) Whenever our family is invited to a pagan event we politely decline…no explanation needed. (Yes we even decline to participate with our church family! We don’t volunteer, we don’t support or participate in these events in any way!) And of course we don’t celebrate the holidays at home.

Do my children know we are living differently than most? Yes, they do. Do they care…do they miss out? No, in fact as my eldest got older and wiser she has expressed gratitude for exposing her to the truth of Gods word. We have discussed this many times, it happens almost each Easter (and on other holidays), whenever they see all the bright colors and holiday displays. I answer truthfully each time, explaining to them in terms that they can understand why we as a family choose not to participate. Throughout the years I have enjoyed witnessing their response to others when they are asked, have they seen the Easter bunny, or are they excited for the Easter bunny to come? Unlike many of us adults children are not ashamed or afraid to speak the truth!

Many times after I have turned down several invites from friends and or family members, I have been asked if my family celebrates holidays…and we do…just not pagan ones. And it is that moment when I take the opportunity open up and explain to them why our family has chosen not to participate in certain holidays. Many people I have the conversation with never knew Easter (or many of the other holidays we celebrate) are pagan. Many research and get back to me surprised…unfortunately most deliberately choose to disobey Gods word. We are still friends…we just don’t talk about this subject; they know where I stand and I know where they stand. It is not our place to force anyone to comply with God’s word. Some however pray about it and they too choose to put away the pagan traditions of this world and follow God’s word as best as they can. Praise God!

None of us will ever be able to live a perfect sin free life…if that were possible then Jesus would not have needed to come to earth and be crucified for our sins. We can however make the decision to do our best to follow God’s word.

“… ‘If you abide in my word, you are truly my disciples, and you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.” John 8:31-32 ESV

“And by this we know that we have come to know him, if we keep his commandments. Whoever says “I know him” but does not keep his commandments is a liar, and the truth is not in him,” 1 John 2:3-4 ESV

“My sheep hear my voice, and I know then, and they follow me.” John 10:27

I want to be known as a disciple of Jesus no matter the cost. I want to do my best to follow the word of God. This life is temporary, fleeting. Plus greater treasures and awards await me in heaven! Why would I want to compromise for man?

“Do not lay up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy and where thieves break in and steal, but lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust destroys and where thieves do not break in and steal. For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also. Matthew 6:19-21 ESV

It is sad that many churches today either ignorantly or blatantly ignore the word of God. Each Easter they mislead millions of people by endorsing and celebrating a pagan holidays such as Easter. Not all Churches do however, and if your church is one of them you have something special and unique! We once attended a church that did not endorse these pagan rituals. There was no church supported Easter programs; eggs hunts, petting zoos or any of the other things churches will do during this season to attract crowds. If a member of the church choose to celebrate this pagan holiday, then it was done so on their own time, on their own time. In fact the church did not even call it an Easter service…they refused. Instead we gathered as a congregation to celebrate Resurrection Sunday. Afterwards many of the families got together for a Passover Seder meal. (Now we are under grace and NOT law, so we are not required to celebrate Passover. However I would encourage you to look into this if you are interested in an alternative to Easter.) Passover is a God ordained holiday and a wonderful way to explain to children the life, death and resurrection of Christ! How wonderful it would be if more churches choose to follow this example. That they were not merely seeking numbers, but truly seeking souls!

For the last several years (as we move frequently) we have not been able to find a church that does not participate in Easter. No church is perfect…so please do not use this as an excuse not to attend church! However the heart of the churches we have joined seek to worship God and live according to the Bible…they were young churches, mislead…trying to find their place in this world full of confusion. Talk to the elders, the pastor, the deacons…in a loving way ask them why they choose to celebrate these pagan holidays and to give you scriptures that support it. (They won’t be able to!) Then share with them what God has revealed to you and make sure you have the scriptures to support what you are communicating! Perhaps that is exactly why God has placed you there; we are after all to be salt and light to the world…not just to the unsaved…but to the saved though uninformed as well.

Unfortunately there will be times church leaders will choose to ignore the truth and when that happens, (over any topic, not just holidays…anything that is against the word of God,) then it is time to leave. You cannot be led or follow a church that is going to willingly choose to be disobedient to God’s word.

“Now therefore fear the LORD, and serve him in sincerity and truth: and put away all the gods which your fathers served on the other side of the flood, and in Egypt; and serve ye the LORD. And if it seen evil unto you to serve the LORD, choose this day whom ye will serve; whether the gods which your fathers served that were on the other side of the flood, or the gods of the Amorites, in whose land ye dwell: but as for me and my house, we will serve the LORD.” Joshua 24:14-15

For me and my house…we will serve the LORD! I pray that you too will choose to do the same. Daily read the word of God so as not to be misled by the world. Choose to follow Jesus no matter the cost!

“And do not fear those who kill the body but cannot kill the soul. Rather fear him who can destroy both soul and body in hell.” Matthew 10:28 ESV

For no matter what happens, your reward in heaven will be much greater! And remember you don’t walk this journey alone, the spirit of God dwells inside you and guides you!

“Blessed are ye, when men shall revile you, and persecute you, and shall say all manner of evil against you falsely, for my sake. Rejoice, and be exceedingly glad: for great is your reward in heaven: …” Matthew 5:11-12 KJV

“Ye are the light of the world. A city that is set on an hill cannot be hid. Neither do men light a candle, and put it under a bushel, but on a candlestick; and it giveth light unto all that are in the house. Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works, and glorify your Father which is in Heaven.”

So choose to be that light! Choose to follow the word of God in its entirety, even if following him makes us look strange or different; that’s ok! Remember this is not our home…we are ‘aliens’ merely passing through. If we truly are God’s children we should look different, act different. We are salt and light, God’s chosen ambassadors, the ones who are to bring the good news of the gospel to the lost people of this world. Sometimes we get the change to do so in conversation, but often times the only witness we have is through our behaviors and actions…if we conform to the world how will the world know we belong to Christ?

Let’s choose to be different! Let’s celebrate the resurrection of Christ in a way that honors and glories God and not in a way that degrades what Jesus did for us on the cross. It was not cute…it was not fun…the God of the universe after being beaten was crucified, hung on a cross and died for our sins. Then three days later he rose! We do have so very much to celebrate! If Jesus had died and not risen then we would have no hope…but because he rose we have hope! We have the promise of an eternity with him. That alone is much to celebrate…we don’t need baskets, eggs, bunnies and chocolate to make the holiday have meaning. Jesus is all we need!

Kiss Me I’m Irish!


Kiss me I am Irish…

Well actually I cannot make that claim. While I married a man with Irish origins, I myself have no Irish blood running through my veins. I have participated in several St. Patrick’s festivities during my lifetime, however it is not a holiday or celebration I really paid much attention to. I will even admit that there have been many years in which I did not even realize it was St. Patrick’s Day until a day or two passed, then logging onto my social media account I would see all the pictures people posted from the parties they attended. In my mind St. Patrick’s Day was about myths of leprechaun’s chasing after gold and drinking. Truth is St. Patrick’s Day originally had nothing to do with either of those things. Just as it had nothing to do with the color green or eating corned beef and cabbage.

As I was researching this holiday (this time around), I came across all kinds of interesting articles. I liked this one the best by Megan Maisano  friedmansprout.com/2018/03/01/8936/ From Blue to Green, and Everything in Between: The Evolution of Saint Patrick’s Day

It’s an easy read, well researched and even has pictures. But she ends her article with “Conclusion: Who Cares?” I believe we should care…I believe we should research and study history. We cannot assume that everything we are taught is truth.

“We destroy arguments and every lofty opinion raised against the knowledge of God, and take every thought captive to obey Christ,” 2 Corinthians 10:5 ESV

Maewyn Succat (St. Patrick) has a really neat testimony. Born sometime around 375-390 A.D. into a wealthy (Scottish, English, Roman family) depending on what you read; he is not even Irish. Captured by pirates as a young man and taken to Ireland where he spent years as a slave learning the language and culture. He eventually escaped and returned home where he went on to become a priest. Then years later he returned to Ireland bringing with him the message of the gospel.

While he was not the first man to share the gospel with the people of Ireland at that time (another popular myth), he was undoubtedly the most successful in his lifetime. Why is this truth not taught? Why was I in my twenties when I first learned the true story behind the pots of gold, shamrocks and green?

Even deeper is that while the story of St. Patrick is an interesting one…why do we even have the holiday? St. Patrick’s Day is NOT a holiday that the Bible commands us to celebrate. Just like Valentines’ and many other holidays we celebrate it is NOT God ordained, man created it in the 17th century. While I believe the story of Maewyn Succat and his life is a great read, another inspiring example of what God can accomplish through willing servants, it is also sad how the story has been bastardized.

Take for example the shamrock…stories tell us that St. Patrick used it as a symbol of the trinity. And while I think that is a creative and neat way to explain the trinity of God, (if in fact he really did that), the shamrock was used by the pagans long before St. Patrick came along. It was the symbol of their triple goddess; Eriu, Brigid and Morrigan.

Beside the additions man has added to the story, the devil then gave man somewhere along the line the idea of adding leprechaun’s to the holiday. Leprechauns were thought to be evil spirits or demons by the pagans. Now our enemy has us thinking of them as cute cartoon characters…chasing after gold and rainbows. In March we see businesses, schools and sometimes our homes decorated with cut outs of ‘cute’ leprechauns. Some people even dress themselves, their children, even their dogs up as Leprechauns on St. Patrick’s Day. Think about that for a moment…people are dressing up as demons, and most don’t even realize it! Decorating with Shamrocks too, another pagan symbol.

“My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge; because you have rejected knowledge, I reject you from being a priest to me. And since you have forgotten the law of your God, I will also forget your children.” Hosea 4:6 ESV

Just like this Bible verse says…people are destroyed for lack of knowledge. We have the responsibility as believers to look into the things we are told, taught, see…to study the Bible, to pray, to make sure we are following God in everything we do! We are not to follow blindly after the ways of the world.

“Beware lest any man spoil you through philosophy and vain deceit, after the tradition of men, after the rudiments of the world, and not after Christ.” Colossians 2:8 KJV

Now let’s consider the drinking that goes along with this holiday…a newer addition in the 1800’s. And while I know not everyone drinks on this holiday, or does so in excess, it does happen, and along with all the other pomp and circumstance, drinking is now an acceptable thing to do on St. Patrick’s Day. I am NOT against drinking…we may drink…even alcohol. As Christian’s though we are told not to get drunk.

“Don’t be drunk with wine, because that will ruin your life. Instead, be filled with the Holy Spirit,” Ephesians 5:18 NLT

After seeing that this holiday is not a true holy day, that it is tied to pagan roots, why would we as Christians choose to celebrate? Why would we choose to expose our children to these pagan rituals? Many won’t agree with me…they will say ‘it’s harmless,’ or even accuse me of being harsh or old-fashioned. Maybe I am…I am choosing to draw a line, to take a stand and say for me and my house we will serve the LORD!

“…then choose for yourselves this day whom you will serve, whether the gods your ancestors served beyond the Euphrates, or the gods of the Amorites, in whose land you are living. But as for me and my household, we will serve the LORD.” Joshua 24:15 NIV

I am all about learning about the man (St. Patrick) and his life, as I said earlier he has an amazing testimony…something which should be shared. What I am NOT willing to do is celebrate a man-made holiday that incorporates pagan symbols and traditions. I will NOT bring them into my house. I am Not willing to serve the gods of my ancestors. Especially when God himself gave us holy days to celebrate.  Yes, as we are under grace and not law we are not required to celebrate the holidays in which God gave to the Israelites. However if I am going to celebrate a holiday I would much rather choose to celebrate those that God himself ordained…holy days that honor him, that point to his son Jesus and the redemption we have in him.

I am NOT willing to compromise my faith! Following Jesus is not always the easiest path.

“Then Jesus told his disciples, “If anyone would come after me, let him deny himself and take up his cross. For whoever would save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for my sake will find it. For what will it profit a man if he gains the whole world and forfeits his soul? Or what shall a man give in return for his soul? Matthew 16:24-26 ESV

I know that what I have written here is not going to be a popular…but I don’t care. This is not a popularity contest… (John 15:18-27)

Someday I will stand before God. Someday YOU will stand before God. On that day we will give account for what we did with this life he has given us. And while I am far from perfect, (I am a work in progress) and though I am covered by the blood of Jesus, I still want to do my best to live in a way in which points others to Christ. If I look like the world, think like the world, act like the world then how will the world know I am different? How will they know I am a child of the most high God?

And one more thought…what would St. Patrick himself think? If he knew that millions of people all over the world were celebrating him, would he agree? Do you really think that a man who spent his life pointing others to God would want men celebrating a man-made holiday with its roots in paganism honoring and glorifying him? Or perhaps would his heart be saddened to see all the pomp and circumstance that occurs during St. Patrick’s Day? After all this life is NOT about us…it’s about Jesus! If we are going to lift anyone up, why not Christ?

We Don’t Need Thoughts and Prayers…

GUnFlickrPhotos_350_3419_farm5_static_flickr_com_40369207261_b02ab4363e_326[1]     We don’t need thoughts and prayers? Wow this surprised me! I was sitting on the couch writing one evening when my husband came into the room and turned on the news. I was not surprised when the news was covering stories of the latest school shooting, or even the fact that there were now massive gun protests going on all over the country…what surprised me was some of the signs people were carrying. We don’t need thoughts and prayers??? Really??? The Bible encourages us to pray…in fact to pray first, often, even unceasingly! (1 Thessalonians 5:17, Ephesians 6:18, and many more).

So you may be reading this and thinking…well that’s nice, but what does prayer have to do with shooting in schools? This does not solve the problem…innocent people died, these shootings are happening more frequently and we need to do something. Yes, innocent people did die, what happened was a tragedy! And yes it is happening more often…and unfortunately it will continue to get worse unless we do make a change.

Many today believe that gun control is the answer, some even believe that outlawing gun ownership in its entirety is the solution. Making it harder or impossible to own a gun will not keep people from doing evil things. The attacks on 911 were not done with guns, they used box cutters and knives. What the people protesting don’t realize it that prayer IS the answer.

In 1962 Engel v. Vitiate prayer was taken out of our schools. In 1963 Abington School District v. Schempp the Bible itself was removed.  In 1963 there we very little gun restrictions and yet there were hardly any gun related deaths. While President Kennedy who was shot on November 22, 1963 was not the first man to be assassinated it was still a shock…these things just did not happen as a ‘norm’.  Just read this paragraph taken from Wikipedia…

“On the day of Kennedy’s funeral, November 25, 1963, people around the world attended memorial services.[43] This was a day of national mourning in the United States and in many countries around the world.[44] Events were called off because of the mourning. Town streets were deserted while services were held. Everyone who could followed the proceedings on television. Others heeded the call for the day of national mourning by going to their place of worship for a memorial service.[45] Around the world, footage of the funeral procession was sent abroad via satellite.[46] Many schools, offices, stores, and factories in the U.S. were closed.[47] Those that were open scheduled a minute of silence.[44] Others permitted employees time off to attend memorial services. During memorial services, church bells tolled. In some cities police officers attached black mourning bands to their badges.[48]

In many states, governors declared the day of national mourning a legal holiday, allowing banks to close.[44] There was silence across the United States at 12:00 EST (17:00 UTC) for five minutes to mark the start of the funeral.[44][49] 

In reading this artical did you niotice that there was no division…no left wing, no right wing…no protesting in the streets. Instead people were encouraged to come together and pray. Nowadays  whenever I happen to hear about a bombing or a shooting on the news, while it is heart breaking and saddens me, I will admit I am not at all shocked. Nor have I gone to my place worship and prayed. (I have prayed, but not as a community of believers). The sad truth is events like this have become ‘normal’ for our generation, and the enemy is using them to divide our nation even more than we already are.

In 1968 after the death of president Kennedy more rigid gun laws were pushed through congress…and have been ever since then. Today we have 20,000 gun laws/restrictions on the books…in 1963 two. That is a huge difference! And yet if gun laws protect us then why are there more shooting today with 20,000 gun laws than there was back in 1963 with only 2? Well to me its pretty obvious…we removed God from the schools.

Before 1963 each school day started with prayer and in many school districts a reading from the Bible as well. WAIT STOP…you might be saying…Separation of Church and State! Well the truth is we are not taught in schools today what that really means; and while I wont get into it here…please  check out this article which does a great job explaining the true meaning of separation of church and state and how it relates to us today.

How to Respond to “Separation of Church and State” – WallBuilders

We have removed God from our schools; and unfortunately in many other aspects of our lives as well. Children were once taught that they were created by a loving God. That they were precious, had worth, value and purpose. Now our schools are void of God and his message that we as humans have value and worth. Instead our children are being taught that we are here by chance, that we are an accident…we have no creator, no purpose, no value, no worth…we live in word where we kill our unborn…with that train of thought why not kill the living? If an unborn human being is worthless…then what makes a living human have any more worth? I mean we are all here by accident, chance…there is no God…I should be able to do what makes me feel good, despite how it affects those around me.
This is a dangerous way of thinking! But this is what we are being told daily. That we should live life doing what makes us feel good, makes us happy. And we wonder why these school shooting are happening and are happening more and more often? We do need prayer! We do need God! Gun control is not the answer, but God is.
” 14 if my people, who are called by my name, will humble themselves and pray and seek my face and turn from their wicked ways, then I will hear from heaven, and I will forgive their sin and will heal their land.”  2 Chronicles 7:14 (NIV)
Unfortunately I highly doubt we will ever get prayer and the Bible back into our schools. As followers of Christ we need to stop burying our head in the sand so to speak. We do need to gather in our homes, in our places of worship with other believers and pray when events like this happen. We also need to gather and pray BEFORE events like this happen. We need to step it up…we need to spread the gospel with more enthusiasm and emphases than ever before! There is a reason that God leaves us here in this earth after we have come to accept Jesus as our lord and savior…we are the salt of the earth! We are his ambassadors!
“My prayer is not that you take them out of the world but that you protect them from the evil one.” John 17:15 (NIV)
We need to boldly speak out and say ‘Hey, yes this happened and yes it was awful, but this is why it is happening and I have something that you to can have…peace.
Did you notice the other sign in the picture above that the young protester was holding? “Fear has no place in schools?”
The truth is fear has NO place! Not just in schools, fear has no place anywhere!
“For God gave us a spirit not of fear but of power and love and self-control.” 2 timothy 1:7 (ESV)
The fact is the farther we fall from following God as a society the more ‘evil’ will be allowed to reign, and events like this latest school shooting will become the ‘norm’. The good news is that there is a cure for all this unrest, this chaos, this fear, this pure evil that is running ramped throughout the world…JESUS! And while we know that until Jesus is reigning on earth as king, we will never experience world peace. We as believers have peace…a peace for this life, on this earth, for this time…a peace that surpasses all understanding. (Philippians 4:7)
We need to do everything in our power to spread the good news of the gospel, so that those who are wandering this earth, hurting, fearful and lost too can experience God’s peace. The gift of salvation is not meant to be kept…it is meant to be shared!
I like what Oswald Chambers said. “We tend to use prayer as a last resort, but God wants it to be our first like of defense.”



What’s in a name?

images-11[1]Not too long ago I went through a name change…I did not publicly announce it to everyone I knew. It was a gradual process, done over the span of several months. God had placed the idea  on my heart a couple of years before I even choose to step out in faith and actually make the change.

For several reasons I struggled with the decision to do so. One…everyone knew me by my old name. Two, it is not something that is commonly done…our names are given to us by our parents. Most people are born and die with the same name. The third reason and the biggest hurdle for me to get over was the fact that I did not believe that I deserved the name God had given to me. You see Nava means beautiful and I did not see myself as beautiful. I am not just talking about outward appearances, I am speaking of who I am inside. I was ashamed of my past, what I had done, who I once was. Even though the Bible clearly tells us that we are a New Creation (2 Corinthians 5:17), that our sins are washed clean (Isaiah 1:18), I was not believing this! The Holy Spirit revealed to me that I  had a lack of faith! I was not really, actively believing and as the last part of Romans 14:23 tells us… ‘and everything that does not come from faith is sin’.

Where had this come from?!? This lack of faith…this sin that was so silent I had not even noticed it creeping into my heart and my mind? It had come from years of allowing the enemy to speak lies over me. So now that this sin was revealed how did I break it off? I had to turn to the scriptures…

‘For you formed my inward parts;
    you knitted me together in my mother’s womb.
14 I praise you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made.[a]
Wonderful are your works;
    my soul knows it very well.
15 My frame was not hidden from you,
when I was being made in secret,
    intricately woven in the depths of the earth.
16 Your eyes saw my unformed substance;
in your book were written, every one of them,
    the days that were formed for me,’

Psalm 139:13-16 ESV

‘But even the very hairs of your head are all numbered. Fear not therefore: ye are of more value than many sparrows.’ Luke 12:7 KJV

“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life. ‘ John 3:16 ESV

The Bible contains so many more scriptures describing just how precious we are to God, so many that I cannot list them all here for times sake. God loves us! In fact the entire Bible from Genesis to Revelation is a love story written to us from God. I was believing the enemy instead of the creator of the universe when it came to how I viewed myself. I was picking and choosing what I was going to believe…for I believed that Christ has died on the cross for my redemption, and yet I was not believing what the Bible said about my self-worth!

THIS IS DANGEROUS! We can’t have it both ways. Either the Bible is the inspired word of God as 2 Timothy 3:16 tells us ‘All scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness:’ (KJV) or it’s not, in which case, it is just a man-made story about a great prophet…and nothing in the book is absolute truth.

Well I KNOW that the Bible IS in fact the inspired word of God, I KNOW that their IS a God and everything written in the Bible IS true! I am living proof…I am a new creation. The old ‘me’ is gone. When I look back on my life its like looking at a stranger…which is exactly why God gave me a new name! My sins ARE gone! They HAVE been washed away! Once I understood this I was fully able to embrace my new name. Of course Satan did not like it! Right away he came in for the attack. I was accused of changing my name as a way of running from my past. I laughed…just like it says in Proverbs 32:25  ‘She is clothed with strength and dignity, and she laughs without fear of the future.’ NIV

I laughed because that could not be farther from the truth. I don’t try to hide my past…now obviously I don’t go around giving an account of all my past sins to everyone I meet on the street; who does that? But I do when led by the spirit share my testimony. I am not afraid of my past, where I come from…what I did…I am not proud, but I am not ashamed. You see I did not publicly make an announcement of my name change for two reasons. First, God was still working on me. (Just as he is today) Second, I did not need to…those who know me…really know me, know my story and the reason for my name change. My testimony has touched and changed the lives of too many others for me to be ashamed. It is powerful and it points to God’s redeeming grace! Just as our testimonies are supposed to do…my name is not about me! The truth is that my name points to God the father and just how much he loves each one of us.

More Precious Than Rubies


Welcome! So excited you have come to check out this site 🙂

I have been writing stories on and off for several years now. I never thought much of it other than it was a way for me to relax, unwind, be creative. Then one day God gave me an idea for a new story. I sat down and wrote it in about a week! The fastest time ever (for me). Just like all my other stories I held onto it, however God had other plans and he told me to send it in to a few publishing houses. So I did,  I sent out my manuscript, still not really believing that anything would come of it. Then just a few weeks later I was contacted by a publisher and offered a contract. I was super excited and after praying about it with my husband, I signed. I thought that would be the end of it, perhaps I would write and release more books, but that was the extent. Once again God’s plans are not mine!

He spoke to me yet again, this time to inform me that my book was not His big plan for me…he was using my book to open doors, to make a way for me to start a women’s ministry. He even gave me a speech…WHAT! You want me to speak to women, I questioned? Yes he does…he made very clear that is His plan for me. So now I am not just a stay at home wife, mother, author, but I am an inspirational speaker as well.

The truth is, I am humbled that God has chosen to use me as his vessel to relay His message to women all over the world. A message letting us know (as women) just how precious each one of us truly is in the sight of God. Our past does not matter, if we have put our faith and trust in Jesus Christ as our Lord and savior our sins are forgiven. (Psalm 103:12 and Romans 3:23-26) We are not defined by our past or who others say we are…we find our identity in Christ and Christ alone. (John 1:12, 1 Corinthians 6:17, Romans 6:6, Jeremiah 1:5, 1 Peter 2:9, Galatians 3:27-28, Colossians 3:1-3…just to name a few).

I am excited about this new journey…my speaking engagements and my book, Box of Treasures, as of now, is to be released on May 8th. I can’t wait to share this story of a young woman’s journey through life set in the 1940’s . Her trials and tribulations, her joy and her tears…her journey that ultimately leads her into a relationship with Christ. His forgiveness, redemption and most of all his grace and love.

My prayer is that this story will touch the hearts and souls of countless women. That all women will realize just how much they are loved by the creator of the universe…how they too can experience God’s grace, love, joy, healing and most of all His peace, His indescribable peace! That every woman will see and know her worth…for you are far more precious than rubies! (Proverbs 3:15)